Excitement is all around as Christmas draws close. We all want that extra ‘something’ to make our lives special.
DO SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT
We all get into habits and you and your lover are probably no exception. Going to the same places, doing the same things with the same people – being in your comfort zone may seem like a cosy option, especially at this time of year, but it can make your relationship go stale.
Start to do different things. Try unusual foods, alter your routine, wear clothes in another style. Go to different places, and be more adventurous than the other pub further up the road! Try talks and workshops, join local groups and even branch out to explore historical sites and find out more about your area.
If your funds will stretch to it, go on holiday to somewhere you’ve never thought of. The object isn’t just to find new activities and venues that you like. In fact it may not matter much if you don’t like what you’re trying, as long as you can have a laugh about it together.
Being somewhere different can reveal your dearest to you in a new light and add spice to your relationship.
EXPLORE PAST LIVES TOGETHER
Did you realise that we reincarnate in groups? In past lives you may well have been close to family and friends. Certain souls have a connection among them and learn together. Chances are that you and your lover have been a couple before. Exploring this can strengthen your bond.
Many of our Readers can reveal past lives to you. You can also explore it by yourselves. The strong preferences you have, the fears you have, the countries you feel drawn to – how many of these do you share? These feelings are often a clue to past lives.
Go into a day-dreamy state together and just see what comes to mind. What one person ‘sees’ can trigger the other. This can be a fascinating shared journey.
SHARE YOUR NIGHT-TIME DREAMS
It’s a good idea to take note of your dreams anyway. When you both do this it will keep the habit going and you may notice a pattern. Before you go to sleep ask for important dreams and talk about them together.
When you have been doing this for a few weeks, ask to meet in your dreams. This may happen quite naturally anyway. Next morning you may remember both being in the same dream! That’s when things can get really interesting……
TALK ABOUT YOUR LOVING EXPRESSION
There are various ways of expressing love. Yours may be hugging and kissing but your partner may show love in practical ways – maybe cooking or paying bills. Some people find it easy to say ‘I love you’ while others believe actions speak louder then words. It’s important to understand your lover’s ‘language’ so you can make each other feel valued.
Try to understand your dear one’s approach and notice how they express it. During the day express your love consciously in the way that’s natural for you, but do it an extra bit. Your lover should agree to do the same. At night time cuddle up and tell each other that you’ve noticed their expressions of love, that you cherish them and are grateful. Enjoy the warmth between you.
HOW WE CAN HELP
Doing something different, exploring past lives together, meditating, sharing your night-time dreams, sharing a project and talking about your love – you now have six ideas to inject magic into your relationship.
PUBLISHED: 31 December 2018