When we first meet someone, start a friendship, decide to draw closer, start a relationship, fall in love or possibly have children and enter into marriage, then the energy of life is running through the whole time. Life is moving along and our bodies and minds are ‘talking’ to us on the journey.
When you first meet someone, spend time or share your life with someone, there will be a number of things going on all at once. The words they use, the actions they show and the way they make you feel. Our internal computers are taking all this information in and processing the reactions. We all have four main areas within us, and they are all running at once:
All these areas within us are sending out signals.
At all the different stages of a connection with someone, our internal computers are running and processing, and if anything is not coming through smoothly, then a ‘flag’ will go up. These flags are our very own ‘operating system alarm’ and as we gain experience we pay attention and learn from them.
How does someone make you feel? What comfort level do their words have? Do their actions flow readily with yours? Do you feel loved and supported?
Anything that jars, causes upset, gives reason to make you stop, or causes pain, is a ‘flag’. We all have patterns of behaviour and when things are running smoothly, then these flow together. ‘Flags’ going up are our way of saying to ourselves “Please stop and think.” “Please pay attention to this, it’s important.”
A loving and safe place to talk your ‘flags’ through is with a psychic reader; great tool to have in your computer toolbox! A reading will give you a loving perspective on what’s actually happening and can show you possible ways to manage what is happening and move forward.
It is about learning to trust ourselves and the ‘flags’ of our own ‘operating systems’.