You’ve kissed a long line of frogs. Finally the love of your life has materialized. No more green slime for you, its hearts and roses from now on.
Being in love is magical, intoxicating and addictive. We want to be with our beloved all the time to cement our relationship. Floating on cloud nine is an amazing feeling. We even smile at traffic wardens, it must be love! Our mobiles become fused to our hands as we eagerly anticipate another text from HIM. We have all been guilty of spending at least three hours of preparation and wearing co ordinated underwear before going out with our soul mate. There is even a danger of wearing matching outfits (please desist if this is you.)
Being together all the time could endanger your relationship as there is nothing new to bring in to it. Giving each other space is both savvy and sexy. Don’t you just hate being unable to breathe if someone is monitoring every movement you make? Ever had that call “Where are you?” from an insecure and manipulative lover? It makes a sane person run for the hills! Being joined at the hip means there is no breathing space, no room for friends and worst of all a loss of freedom.
If we want to make our new found love to last, a new strategy has to be employed. The number one rule for a relationship to last is to respect and love yourself enough to have your own interests, friends and” you” time. Being a mother rather than a lover is a surefire way to get dumped. Don’t try and fix anybody else, that’s not your job.
Hide your phone down the back of the sofa so that you are not tempted to text ninety seven times a day. Being slightly elusive and having other interests makes us even more attractive. Most importantly if we are being stimulated by other interests that makes us even more irresistible. It’s a win win situation.
When I met my soul mate I decided to have a psychic reading to find out exactly what he was looking for in a partner. Psychics can look at someone’s personality traits from a neutral and accurate point of view. It made such a positive difference to our relationship as I discovered from the reading he needed his own space sometimes. It also encouraged me to explore new interests and friends. I am happy to report that the feeling of being in love still persists. Having an insightful reading gives you an invaluable view in to another’s heart and soul. Go for it!