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Midnight Musings

 

Read about my personal experiences from my everyday life and get to know the real me

Having a Reading

 

A reading is a spiritual experience and should be enjoyable as well, and I understand that people come to us as Readers for guidance on some difficult subjects. I wanted to give a perspective from a Readers viewpoint so that my customers could gain some clarity and understanding on things which may have puzzled them.

 

I have written this blog after a lot of thought after several readings I have conducted recently where question after question were just fired at me like I am a magic 8 ball, expecting an answer within a few seconds of being asked the question. Sometimes there will be a delay as I wait for spirit to give me the information you seek.  

 

As a Reader I am none judgmental, but I will not lie about what is going to happen. For instance, if I feel that a relationship is not going to work out, or the other person involved is not going to change their behaviour, I will say so to you. 

 

One of the issues around a reading is timings, I cannot give you a time in regard to a reading. Sometimes a month will come in to me from my guides and I will pass it on, but I often cannot tell you specifically when a person will contact you, or when you will hear about your job interview etc. My advice to you when you are having a reading is to let the Reader answer your question before you ask another. I am a chat Reader and I would advise that if you want several questions answering either put them all in at the beginning so we can structure the reading around your questions, or give us time to answer them in turn. Chat, by its very nature, can often come across as unfeeling but that is not the case at all, I try to put myself in the client’s position when I conduct a reading and pass on the information that I receive in the best way possible.   

 

This is my chosen vocation, not one that I just have to earn money. I chose this job because I feel privileged working for spirit and passing messages on through readings. I hope this blog post has served to answer any questions you may have about how I work but if there is anything else you need to know please ask me at the start of your reading.

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

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Published:5th March 2019

 

 

 

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2019 is the Sun

 

A good while back I realized that starting with the year 2000 the major arcana cards were relevant to each year, 2000 being the fool, 2001 being the magician etc.  This being said, it means that 2019 is the sun and what a lovely positive card this is, it tells you that whatever is going on in your life there is something to be grateful for.  Also with last year being the moon and truths being illuminated to you, this year will be when you reap the benefits and get a chance to enjoy life.

 

The other thing that will happen in this year is that you will be able to see clearly the negative people and situations that are around you and will have the courage to step away from them.  There are new friendships and new opportunities coming in with this year, so try not to overlook anything that comes in towards you.

 

With the sun in your life its time to put behind you all the things you have struggled with and just enjoy life. Treat this year as a year to catch up on your life, and make time to do all the things you want to, leave the negative behind and put yourself first.

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

 

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Published:2nd January 2019

 

 

 

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Suffering with Empathy

 

I have done several readings recently where people have been affected by empathy and I did promise to write a blog about it.  I think that empathy can be a great thing as usually people who are empathic are also natural healers.  However it’s often said that people suffer from empathy because they can get swamped by negative emotions from people around them.  If you do not realize it is happening it can be life stopping. 

 

The advice is that if you get a sudden emotion out of the blue then it probably is not yours.  Mentally ask spirit to take it away and tell them it is not your emotion and you don’t want it, I find that often works for me. The other way to do it is to try and see where you are picking up the emotion from. This can be more difficult if you are in a crowded place, it’s much easier to ask spirit to deal with it for you.  We all have guides around us and they want to help and the more we ask them, the more they will come into our lives.

 

I dislike big gatherings of people or public transport because of empathy, however I have begun going to football matches with my son over the past few years and the energy is amazing to get involved with, so there are good sides to it as well as bad.

 

If you feel you need some advice about being empathic then come and have a reading with me and I can give you some guidance and help you come to terms with it. 

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

 

 

 

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Published: 27th November 2018

 

 

 

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Thinking About Others

 

 I have begun noticing how people don't really notice each other when they are out and about.  This came about when I broke my shoulder and had a bright blue sling on that you couldn’t really miss as I nearly always wear black clothes. People were banging into me and letting doors go in my face and I got hurt several times.  So it lead me to notice that people will walk into you, let a door close on you, not say thank you when you let them past or open the door etc.  

 

When my car was broken down a few months back and I was on the bus I was sat in a window seat and a young pregnant woman got on.  I was unable to stand up because I was blocked in by a young man, who I full expected to stand up.  His friend who was standing up told him to get up and a full on argument started because the one who was sat down was refusing to stand for the pregnant woman. I offered to get up if he would move to let me out, but his friend shamed him so much and said he would fall out with him, that in the end he did stand up.  It left me wondering when people became so inconsiderate to others. 

 

I suppose the nice part of the story is that one of them was a decent person and shamed the other into doing the right thing.  If you are reading this then be aware that when you are out in the public that you are not the only one out there, let’s get our manners back!

 

Just to end on a good note, I was walking back to my car with a big box in my arms recently and someone offered to open the door to the car park for me and carry it to my car, so it’s not all doom and gloom.

 

Do something nice for someone today, smile at them, open a door, let them in front of you in a queue if they only have one item and hopefully, like ripples in a pond, the kindness will spread.

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

 

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Published:12th October 2018

 

 

 

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Onwards and Upwards

 

My blog today is about picking yourself up and moving on from difficult situations that have happened.  Sometimes things that happen in our lives are difficult to understand and leave us feeling deflated, and put us in that ‘why me’ situation.  Then we give the situation a lot of energy and time trying to figure out why bad things happen to us and that kind of thing. 

 

Just two weeks ago due to an existing health condition I broke my shoulder. I say due to an existing health condition because I woke up as I was falling down my stairs at home. I can tell you now I consider myself very lucky because if I hadn’t woken it would have been much more than a broken shoulder.  My arm was stretched out and I tucked it in underneath me and managed to curl my body up so that the back of my shoulder took the damage.  Don’t get me wrong I initially went through that stage of feeling down but then I realised some things. Firstly if I had not woken up I would done much more damage, I can still work and do a lot of things.  Secondly, it has made doctors start taking my existing health condition more seriously, and also people around me that brushed it off. Thirdly, I have found out who can be depended on and who can’t to give me help when I need it. 

 

I am still shaken by what has happened but I am in a state of mind where I have moved on from it and am not over thinking any more. I think working as I do helps me a great deal to get through difficult times and see what is important in my life. Sometimes things happen to give us a bit of a wake-up call that things need to change in our lives.  So just remember that when things seem as if they are going wrong.

 

If you want to talk something negative over with me to make some sense of it, then book a chat reading with me and I will help to shed some light onto your situation. Together we can figure out how you too can move onwards and upwards.

 

All my love Suzi x

 

 

 

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Published:6th August 2018

 

 

 

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Walking Through a Storm

 

My blog today is about staying strong and being able to get through difficult times. 

 

I hear people say it all the time and have said it myself in the past and that is the phrase ‘I have not asked for this’ or ‘why is this happening to me’.  It is difficult when things are happening all around you and it seems that bad things are coming in one after another.  However, in my own life I have come to learn there is a solution to everything and that if you just sit still for a moment and focus and not allow your emotions to get the better of you, things are often not quite as bad as they first seem.

 

I am a big believer in feeling emotions and I think that if you need to be angry or cry then that’s fine.  I think I cry more now than I have ever done and then once it’s over I get up and get on with things.  If you try and hold emotions in, that’s when you start to feel that you can’t manage or get through a difficult time.  My personal experience is that if I let it all out, sometimes to a close friend, then I can get through it.  One thing I want to add at this point, my personal beliefs are, there is nothing thrown at you in this life that you cannot get through. Life is a learning experience and we need to try and remember that through the difficult times.  Look at problems as challenges and you will see that there is a way through them. 

 

The other thing I would like to add before I end is that once you have made a mistake you need to leave it in the past.  There is nothing you can do once something has happened and there are too many people walking around with regrets of things they wish they had done differently.  Everything happens for a reason, so believe this and know that you couldn’t have done things differently because you needed to learn a particular lesson and be pushed down a different path. 

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

 

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Published:3rd May 2018

 

 

 

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Bad Bevhaviour

 

My blog today is about how other people treat us.  I get a lot of readings where people are putting up with awful behaviour from those around them and they are justifying it in one way or another. What I want to say to you is that yes sometimes if someone is going through illness, or a death in the family or particularly bad times then we can forgive and move on from this.  However, there has to be a cut-off point and you have to remember that if you are treating people kindly, then you should expect the same treatment in return. 

 

In my own life just recently I have experienced this with loved ones and I have taken a step back and left them to their own devices until they are going to treat me with the respect that I give them. I think that everyone experiences this at one time in their life and it’s important not to fuel it and just step back and not worry about it too much.

 

When I am sat with clients a lot of their worry is that they feel frustrated and don’t know what to do and want an answer to why certain people are treating them badly.  Sometimes you have to accept that a person is not going to change and that its time to step away and surround yourself with people that will treat you as you treat them.  It’s not giving up on someone, it’s not allowing yourself to be miserable in your life.  It’s ok being supportive to someone but you need to know when it’s time to step back and know that it’s not selfish to do so if things get too hard to deal with. 

 

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Published:25th April 2018

 

 

 

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Bereavement

 

I wanted to share this difficult time with you, my readers, because I want you to see the personal side of me and see that as a messenger from spirit I am no different to you. 

 

My Grandad passed away in the early hours of Thursday morning and while it has been a difficult time for me, he was so poorly that I had been praying for him to pass away peacefully, which he did in the end.  I wanted to share this with you because I do get a lot of people coming for readings that have lost loved ones and I think that we all experience it in different ways.

 

There is a back log with funerals because of the amount of elderly and vulnerable people that the latest virus has affected.  So it is going to be at least 3 weeks before they can bury my Grandad.  For me I have felt my Grandad around and I am going to write a eulogy and put it past him before I read it at his funeral. What I want to encourage people who are grieving to do is to speak to their loved ones.  Talk to them as if they are still there because they do hear you.  As I am writing this I am getting a tingling on the top of my head and this is one of the ways that spirit reach out to you.  I feel that I am in a privileged position doing the job I do and just knowing that my Grandad is around me and not ill any more. So if you have had a loved one passed away recently, think about that and it will make you feel better.

 

Here is a small exercise to do if you are unable to visit your loved ones resting place. Get some flowers and put them on a small table and leave a letter to the person telling them what you want to say. If you have a picture of them then put it in front of the flowers and on top of the letter.  Light a candle and some incense if you want to and they will come and see you and know you are thinking of them.

 

That’s all for now, all my love Suzi xxx

 

 

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Published:27th February 2018

 

 

 

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All about love

 

Today’s blog is around love and given the amount of readings that I do on the subject, I thought it would be a good idea to write about it.

 

When genuine feelings are involved, love can be something wonderful but when one person puts more effort in than the other then it can also become a nightmare.  I am a happily single person and have been for a long time.  A lot of people around me cannot believe that I am content with being on my own, but I assure you that I am.  I am focusing on myself and my home and my business. I couldn’t imagine having to consider someone else at the moment while I am so busy. One of the questions I get asked are things like, are you not scared to end up on your own in old age.  That is not a reason to be with someone at all, you should be with someone because you love them not because of loneliness.

 

Now, without turning this into a lecture, I come across people that are in very bad relationships and they are unwilling to let go because they feel that they are in love with this person and that they are the one for them. There is nothing wrong with giving people a chance or trying to make something work, but I do believe that once you are being hurt and you are having to constantly chase after the person you are in a relationship with, then maybe it’s time to let it go. This also can go for demanding friends or family members that constantly take and are never there for you when you need them.

 

The most powerful thing in life that you can do is to learn to love yourself and your own company.  I will be spending Valentine’s Day going to a church service and then treating myself to a lovely vegan meal as I am giving up all animal products for lent, being vegetarian already I’m half way there. So don’t worry about being on your own, pamper yourself and learn to be that powerful single person that people want to spend time with.

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

 

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Published:12th February 2018

 

 

 

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Making the best of things

 

The blog today is about looking at what you have and making good use of it.  It is easy to sit and look at what other people have and think that our lives would be so much better if we had that life, but it’s not our life. So try not to do this because everyone has their own problems even if they don’t appear to, there will be something they are struggling with. 

 

For me this has been a difficult year already, with personal illness and family illness but I am now picking myself up and getting back on top form. I have also been guilty of helping people and putting my own needs second.  So if this is you then I am going to ask you that you stop doing this now as I am going to make that effort and we can do it together.

 

So if you are reading this blog today then look at what you have and don’t become overwhelmed with the big issues. Break things down into a series of steps and tackle them bit by bit rather than feeling you can’t cope.  The other big thing is to stop putting other people’s needs before yours and keep this up long term.  It’s too easy to deal with other people’s problems so that we avoid looking at our own.  I am guilty of this all the time, but then today I felt that I shouldn’t moan if I don’t make the time to help myself. So that’s what I am urging you to do, help yourself and start tackling things, even if it’s just the small things.  It’s amazing how much better you will feel from just sorting out one problem in your life.

 

If you want to try and make sense of how to tackle your problems then make a coffee and pop over to me for a chat reading.  I will try and help to put things into perspective for you.

 

Have a lovely day and all my love Suzi xxx

 

 

 

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Published:9th February 2018

 

 

 

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Blue Moon Eclipse

 

I’m writing this blog because a lot of my clients come to me with self esteem problems, they have no confidence in themselves and have problems with accepting compliments.  Well I have a little something for you to do on the 31st of January (UK customers) because it is not only a full moon, it is a ‘super blue moon eclipse’. 

 

The energy is going to be amazing and there is a simple ritual that you can perform that will help with your confidence.  All you need is a silver frame (it doesn’t have to be actual silver just silver in colour), a pink candle or a white one if you can’t find a pink one, some incense of your own choice, a picture of yourself, some sea salt, ribbons and decorations to decorate the frame with and some bubble bath and perfume or anything else that will make you feel good.

 

Any time during the 31st get your picture out and put some of your favourite music on, if you can have windows open all the way through that’s great, but if not, just open a window for a short time towards the end.  Put your picture in the frame and decorate it and make a small alter in your bathroom, on the sink will do if it’s a tiny bathroom.  Now if you don’t have a bath you can have a shower, but if you have a bath all the better, and just run the bath and put the sea salt in it along with your favourite bubble bath and light the candle and incense and place them around the picture of you. 

 

Now comes the best part, if you want to have a glass of wine with you that’s fine, just relax in the water and think about everything you have achieved and know that you deserve the best.  When you get out of the bath, visualise any negativity going away down the drain.  Simply pamper yourself and transfer the picture and things into a place where you will see them every day and leave them there as long as you want. 

 

It’s a lovely simple little ritual and nice to try if you have never done anything like that before. Do let me know how you get on with it.

 

All my love Suzi x

 

 

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Published:22nd January 2018

 

 

 

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Over Thinking

 

Hello to my readers, today’s blog is about over thinking and worrying too much.  Just recently I misread a situation because I was worrying about something else and thought the two of them were connected.  Of course it turned out that they were not and this is what I want to talk to you about today. 

 

Sometimes if we are thinking about a situation far too much we think everything is about us.  It can often seem that a situation is out of control and taking over our lives if we focus on it too much. The best way to deal with this kind of situation is to take a step back and look at it as if you are advising someone else. There is nearly always a solution and it also helps to speak to someone else as well. This is something that we are able to deal with on the psychic line.  We are not just here to look at the future and predict what is going to happen, we are also here to listen to your problems in a non-judgemental way, to help you make sense of what is going on.  Sometimes that is all that’s needed, to voice your problems and you will start to see a way forward.

 

So getting back to my advice, if you have something that you feel is a problem, don’t keep it to yourself, tell someone and talk it over because you will find that there is a way forward and it is nowhere near as bad as you first thought. Remember even us Readers over think sometimes and get things mixed up when it’s concerning our own lives and this is because it’s difficult to be objective when it comes to yourself. 

 

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Published: 5th December 2017

 

 

 

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Looking on the bright side

 

This blog is about the last few weeks where I’ve had some very difficult things happen in my life but when I step back and look at what’s been going on, they have actually pushed me to a better place. 

 

There was something that I had been trying to make a choice about for at least 2 years and then all of a sudden it was taken away from me.  I do believe that my guides did this and my family in spirit because I had dithered and worried about doing the right thing, and because I was not doing the right thing by myself.  I won’t go into the situation but needless to say it showed some ones true colours to everyone else and it put me in a much better position than I was before.

 

I must tell people nearly every day in my readings that if you don’t make a decision, then spirit will make it for you and it could get stressful but ultimately it will be for the best in the long run. I will let you into a secret, I did a reading for myself a while back about this situation and the 10 of swords and the tower both came out in the spread. Now most people fear those cards, but looking at what happened it was like a weight lifted off my shoulders all at once and I was moved right out of the situation and I am now in a much better place.

 

The reason I am writing this blog is to tell you that no matter what is going on in your life, if you are struggling then just surrender the decision to spirit and they will guide you and push you if need be.  I would have never made the right decision, even though I knew deep down what to do.  So if you are struggling then let spirit decide for you.  I do hope you have enjoyed reading this and I also hope it’s given you some guidance too.

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

 

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Published: 20th November 2017

 

 

 

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Every cloud has a silver lining

 

I’m writing this blog today because I want to point out that there is a blessing behind the problems that we go through in our lives.  I will share with you the story that prompted me to write this blog.

 

I have had problems with my car for the last 6 or so months.  I dropped someone off at her home and this is someone I have been helping with a personal problem, she and I have become friends.  I got back in my car and put my foot on the clutch pedal and something snapped and the pedal disappeared into the floor. My first thought was that it would have happened while I was driving the car had I not been dropping my friend off. However that is not the end of the story.  The garage said that there was also something wrong with the breaks and the car was an accident waiting to happen. Even though at first I was upset and inconvenienced without my car, it could have been so much worse. 

 

When I have something negative happen, I try and look at why it has happened and what it is pushing me to see. If you are reading this today I want you to try and apply this to your life. There is always a reason behind a negative in your life. Sometimes it’s to push you to take action and move you to a much better place in your life. Or like with my car you are being stopped from making a very serious mistake. So I am going to leave you with that thought, try and look at the reason behind something and you will see that things are often not as bad as they first seem.

 

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Published: 19th October 2017

 

 

 

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Limbo

 

Many people come to me for readings because they feel as if their life is in limbo and instead of enjoying the time to just focus on themselves they are wanting to rush things.  Most of us feel that our lives would be better if we could just have something we desire in it. I have been through this myself, but I now live my life in the mode of if it’s meant to be it will be and I think that it’s made me much more able to appreciate what I have around me right now, rather than focusing too much on the future.

 

Don’t get me wrong, I still sometimes get myself into the mode of feeling that I need something I don’t. Then I check myself and take a step back and realise that I have enough things in my life to make it fulfilling and happy. Just because I am spiritual doesn’t mean that I don’t want material things because I do, for example the laptop I am typing this on is an aging model, but I can access the internet on it and its fast enough for what I need it to be. There are more important things that I need to spend my money on and when I think about it not everyone has a laptop or can afford one, so I should be thinking myself lucky.

 

I think the essence of this blog today is to just remind you that if you are wanting something so badly that you are going to crave it and feel it will make your life much better, remember the limbo and why spirit have bought it in. It’s often because you don’t need the thing you feel you do, whether this is a person, or a job, or an item such as a laptop. You need to be responsible for your own happiness and be happy within yourself and anything else should be extra in your life.

 

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Published: 26th September 2017

 

 

 

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Satisfaction

 

I’m writing this blog today because this weekend I met some wonderful people while doing readings.  I came to the realisation that this was the job I have always wanted to do and have been wishing into my life and finally I am doing for a living exactly what I want to do.  I personally think that everyone should be doing a job they love because we spend at least half our life, if not more, working for a living.  There is a full moon coming up soon and I think if nothing else if you are reading this you should be making a wish to bring your ideal job in towards you. 

 

It has taken a long time for me to be earning a full time wage by working with spirit, but I feel that had I made it more clear in the beginning then it would have come in sooner. Attracting what you want in life is often easier than you think but you have to know it is coming in towards you.  Don’t doubt it for one moment because then you will delay the success.  I think that most people always think that good things are for other people and not them. That is simply not true, you can have the things you want if you are clear what you want and then you take the opportunities when they come in.  It’s no good wanting a different job but then not actively looking for it.  It’s like wanting to win the lottery but then not buying a ticket.  So make it easier for the universe to provide for you by taking the hints and nudges that you will get once you have made your wish.

 

One last thing when you are making a wish, always wish something into your life rather than something out of it. You can have the things you want in your life, so start wishing today.

 

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Published: 13th July 2017

 

 

 

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We all struggle

 

I wanted to share with my readers that I have been going through a difficult time lately and it’s been a really difficult past couple of weeks.  Then when I walk through the town where I work and see all the homeless sleeping in shop doorways it makes me realise that things are not as bad as I feel they are.  Sometimes we get overwhelmed with things in our lives and when things are not going so well it brings us down a little bit. So the point of this blog is to get you all to start thinking in a more positive way about your lives.  We all have problems but I feel that if you look around there will always be someone who you feel is worse off than yourself.  So when you get up in the morning feel grateful that you have woken up under a roof and while you are making that first cup of coffee or tea just think about people that don’t even have that luxury and it will take the edge off your problems.

 

The other point that I want to make now, almost going back on what I said but you will see why I am making it. Don’t put your problems aside to help someone else with theirs, this is when things start to get you down as you are not dealing with the things you need to. Although it’s great to help others, I feel that the energy of this year is about helping yourself first.  The first bit of this blog was to help you take the edge of your problems so that you can deal with them. I think that often we look at our problems and become so overwhelmed that we cannot see a way forward, and then something else pops up that we have to deal with and things just don’t get done.

 

So my advice is to deal with one problem at a time and make a list if you need to. 

 

 All my love to you who is reading this.

Suzi xxx

 

 

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Published: 19th June 2017

 

 

 

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It's Easy to Judge

 

I’m going to tell you a story of something that happened to me while traveling on the bus a short while ago. I had waited for a long time for the bus, they should have been every ten minutes and everyone had been waiting for at least half an hour or more.  So the bus was crammed and I had my wheelie case, a bag and 2 shopping bags and I got on there was only a seat at the back and people were pushing and shoving so I sat on one of the front seats but not the ones that face each other and off we set. 

 

I had my phone out doing the usual thing of checking my emails or facebook messages as a distraction and around half way through the journey the bus stops and a grumpy old man got on and he was ranting about how long he had been waiting.  I have to admit the bus driver was patient with him and I looked up and watched while he stood looking for somewhere to sit, people just turned away in the very front seats and I felt he was so tired and fed up with life that he just wanted to shout at people, so before he could I moved up and said sit here.  As soon as he sat down, he was looking around and was muttering to himself about people talking loudly on their phones.  So I put my phone away in my bag as I could tell he didn’t understand them and they were upsetting him. People were glancing at him all the time as he was muttering under his breath and just moaning in general.  So I sat quietly and looked out of the window and not at him so he could feel comfortable turning round and facing away from people.  Anyway when he pressed the button to stop the bus which was now very busy, lots of people standing up and before he got up he turned to me and said ‘thank-you for that’ in a very soft voice, before turning and pushing his way through people muttering and ranting as he went.

 

I know it’s easy to judge a ranting old man but he just felt fed up with life in general, I felt spirit around him and I did think at one point he had lost someone close to him as a woman in spirit was around him strongly.  However I don’t tune into people without their permission so I tried not to but I would just urge anyone reading this to act kindly towards someone in stress before they shout back.  Sometimes they just need a bit of kindness because they have suffered and are railing at the world. 

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

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Published: 31st May 2017

 

 

 

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Live to Work

 
Today I spent 2 hours at a beautiful Church facing where I live, and I was there to help clean it. Regardless to what religious beliefs you have a church is one of the most spiritual places you can spend time in. This one is an old building and I felt privileged to help clean it, just being inside a building that old is enough to make me feel peaceful. Unfortunately it was just me and the Vicars wife on that day because people are often too busy to lend a hand working and other things already planned.

 

We talked about how people lived to work these days and that they don’t enjoy the free things in life. The competition between neighbours and families to have better cars and larger televisions than each other, so people work themselves into the ground trying to get these material things and then they are too exhausted to enjoy them.

 

It did make me realise that I was lucky regarding the job that I have been guided to do. I work the hours that I want to and fit them around me and also helping people is the most amazing feeling. When I do a reading and the person ends by saying that they feel better or it has really helped them it makes me feel good, because that’s what I want to do.

 

So what I want to say to people who hate their jobs and are working themselves into the ground, sit back and think about what your dream job is and what you would love to do in life to make a living. Get that thought out to the universe and tell it that you want that job, know that the job is out there for you and know that you can have it. Keep it in mind and every day think about the job you want and let the universe bring it to you. My personal belief is that everyone should be doing the job they love doing, it shouldn’t be a chore, it should bring you satisfaction and an income.

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

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Published: 25th May 2017

 

 

 

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Changing Your Outlook

 

The other day I had a little bit of a melt down and very self indulgently posted on social media saying I was going to become a recluse and sit in my house doing readings online so I don’t have to interact with people.  I was looking for some sympathy and of course lots of people responded.  I got a phone call asking whether I was free to go for coffee and how was I, and then I had a rant at this friend telling them of the day’s problems and that I wasn’t ok etc. When I messaged the friend later via social media I apologised for moaning and they said, it’s ok to moan once in a while and that they were ok about it. 

 

It got me thinking that I deal with lots of problems every day and I break down people’s problems so that they can deal with them in a better way and why wasn’t I doing it with my own problems. I just wanted to tell you about this so that you can see we all have problems that overwhelm us from time to time and that no one is immune to that.

 

The advice that I give to people weighed down with problems and obstacles in their life is that you should try and see them as challenges, not obstacles that cannot be got past.  There is nearly always a way to deal with things and if not there will be a path around an obstacle in your life. We all have different things that weigh us down and to some people one problem will see massive and to others the same thing will not be a problem at all.  I just want to let people know that I too have problems that sometimes I feel are quite hard to deal with in my life.  The other way I deal with things is to look at what I do have and that always helps me.

 

If you are feeling weighed down with something that you feel you cannot cope with, come and chat with me about it and I will help you see how you can cope with it or get past it. 

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

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Published: 18th May 2017

 

 

 

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Changing Your 'Luck'

 

I get an awful lot of readings about people who feel they have bad luck in their life.  Once you get into that mode of feeling it’s difficult to break the cycle.  Most people have heard about cosmic ordering or the law of attraction and that kind of thing, but then while they understand the concept, there is always that nagging doubt in the back of their mind as to whether it really works. There is enough of everything to go around in the world and I feel that it does work if you get yourself into the mode of believing you deserve to be happy.  If you constantly feel as if you deserve misery or that you are going to be one of those people that will always have to work hard for what you have, then you are attracting that in.  So break out of that thought cycle, make an attraction board and put it up above your kettle so that every morning you see your wishes and dreams on it and think they are coming to me.

 

On another note, it’s all very well wanting a new job but then not going out to look for one.  Or feeling that you are alone but then not answering the phone when a friend rings or refusing an invitation to go out.  You have to be active as well if you want something, put yourself out there and say to the universe ‘bring this to me, I am going to be receptive to it’. You are never going to win the lottery if you don’t buy a ticket, do you see what I mean?

 

What I want from you today is to make a list of the things you want, your ideal job, the car you want, even the partner you want in your life. Write it down or make an attraction board and stop doubting, you can have what you want. 

 

All my love to you

Suzi x

 

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Published: 10th May 2017

 

 

 

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Living the dream and loving my job

 

Hello to my blog readers, I am sat in my lovely alter room while writing this, it’s situated at the back of my home and is like my haven when I am having a bad day.  In all honesty I spend most of my time in this room even though there are still some finishing touches to be made.  In a morning I get up and have my shower and then come straight into my alter room and light some incense and make a coffee.  

 

Depending on what mood I am in depends on the music I am playing, if it’s a week day I like to listen to the morning show, I do like a bit of music from the 70’s rock or surprisingly enough a bit of punk.  That may surprise some of you but it is just the rebel in me.  I do have some lovely spiritual music that I play also, so it really depends on my mood.  If it is a working day and I am staying in to do readings for TheCircle customers I can often stay in my alter room all day.  Some Readers like to keep everything separate but I think that if I need to be in here working I would rather be sat in here with my laptop and my incense going than in an office. I am a very spiritual person and I feel so connected in my little sacred space. There are tall trees at the back of my house and it means that when I look out I can see the tops of them swaying about and if I have the window open I can hear the birds.

 

I have to say that I love my job and this is what my blog is about today. You spend most of your time working, more than half your life and if you hate your job then it will impact on your life. I feel that everyone should enjoy their job and be working in an area they are passionate about.  I am passionate about what I do, sitting here advising people and helping them make the choices that are best for them is the best job I have ever had.  If I make a difference to just one person’s life a day then that is what my job is about.  I was told a long time ago by a lovely phone Reader that I was going to work for spirit because they wanted me to and I doubted it, but here I am, working for them doing a job I love.  I hope you have enjoyed my blog today.

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

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Published: 4th May 2017

 

 

 

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Ripples in the Water

 

I just want to ask people to not be so busy and rushed when they go out and about their business.  I know life is difficult and fast paced, but when you are not in a rush you can experience some lovely moments.  

 

I was once in a supermarket and got an urgent phone call, I started loading my shopping on out of my basket and the cahier started putting it through and when I finished the call, I just apologised out of curtesy.  She then informed me that people come through her till all the time never even making eye contact with her, just talking on the phone and wave their card in the air when it comes to paying, she was shocked that I apologised and it quite made her day. 

 

It made me realise how many of us do this, wander around in a world of our own not interacting with the people who serve us. Those people are the ones that make our everyday life easier, they are serving us whether it’s in general day to day at the shops, or if we are treating ourselves to a meal or night out.  The people that are bringing us our drinks are doing it for our benefit and should be treated with some respect and acknowledged as people.  I just wanted to write this blog today as a thank you for those people that clean the places we go and take for granted, like the public toilets and the streets.  I think it’s time to start thanking people for what they do for us rather than just take it for granted. 

 

So when you are out and about instead of complaining about something that went wrong, send an email about exceptional service you received. Or take the time to say thank you to the person serving you.  I know they get paid for it but it won’t be as much as they deserve, you can count on that.  I hope today's blog hasn’t been too preachy, I just wanted to mention the people that make our lives easier.   

 

All my love to you who is reading this xxx

 

 

 

 

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Published: 26th April 2017

 

 

 

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Putting Yourself First

 

Today’s blog is about a subject that is close to my heart, I get a lot of readings where people are putting their lives on hold, having so many things they want to do in their lives but they just don’t get around to it.  There are several reasons and the main one being that they are putting other people’s needs before their own. You often hear parents saying that they are living their dreams through their children, when they should be living their own dreams. I have 3 children and I was a single parent, and yes I did put a lot of things on hold to look after them but when they got to a certain age I started doing the things that I wanted to do and that includes this job. I feel that too many people are putting other people’s needs before their own and they get to a certain point in life where they feel dissatisfied with what they have done and where they are in life.  I am saying to you now, you are never too old to start living the life you want.  One of my favourite things to tell people is to write down something you want in your life and then make a list of how you can get there.  I think that we often look at the result we want and feel that it’s too far away. 

 

Also I want to get across that it’s ok to switch the phone off and lock your door and not go out to lunch with that friend who seems to have more money and time on her hands to go lunching. Or go helping someone who is never there when you need help.  I have been finding since becoming self-employed that people seem to think I have an infinite amount of time when I can earn money and that I can just sign on and off when I want.  Several times I have found myself at the end of the week with very little money coming in because I have been persuaded to do something else other than work.  Then when I have no money I get told by less spiritual people around me to ‘get a proper job if it’s not earning me enough’.  This is my dream job and I love doing it, I love the customers I get and I wouldn’t want to do anything else.  So I am putting my foot down with the people around me and you who is reading this should do that too!  This is your life and you are allowed to be happy in it and put yourself first, it’s not selfish and don’t allow anyone to make you believe that.  I hope you enjoyed my blog today. 

 

All my love Suzi xxx

 

 

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Published: 10th April 2017

 

 

 

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The Hermit and the 7 of Swords

 

Hello and welcome back to my blog, the two cards I am focused on today are often feared in a reading because people are so scared of being on their own. 

 

Over the years in both a personal and professional capacity I have come across people who stay in bad situations because they don’t want to end up either single or losing out on a social situation.  My feeling is that you shouldn’t stay in a negative situation, and you should seek a way out of it as soon as you can. 

 

So starting with the Hermit card, I feel that sometimes people see this as the loneliness card but often it’s telling you that you need time for reflection and time to think about things without other people’s influences around you. I feel that when this card comes into a reading it’s telling you that it’s time to think about yourself and your needs and focus on your intuition or inner voice.

 

The 7 of Swords is often called the thief card and this card comes in to almost force you to see that someone is lying or manipulating you and this will push you into either having to act, or put up with a situation around you.  This card is often feared in a reading because it’s usually confirmation of what you already know.  If it is coming up in a future position I always feel that it’s better to know in advance and you can prepare for what is coming in.

 

My last thought for today is that if you are one of those people that are scared of being alone then try and spend some more time alone and become comfortable with yourself, the more you do this, the more you will enjoy your alone time. This will give you back your personal power so that you no longer have to stay in negative situations just for the company. I hope this has been some use to you.

 

All my love Suzi x

 

 

 

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Published: 31st March 2017

 

 

 

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The Tower and Death Cards

 

This is the first blog in a series and I will be talking about cards that people often fear coming into a tarot reading.  

 

These two cards are the ones that people will go into a panic about if I am dong a face to face reading and they see either of them. Death usually depicts a skeleton with spirits around it and people always assume it’s about a physical death, which it isn’t. The tower card is usually a tower with the roof blown off it, fire and lightening and people falling or jumping from the top of it.  So you can see why both these cards are considered a bit scary.  So let me tell you a short story to indicate why these cards are about changes that you need to make, sometimes forced changes, but you will see why they can be a positive thing in a reading.

 

I had chosen my cards for each month at the beginning of the year and one month was the tower and the following month was the death card, and yes I was worried.  However I was in an abusive relationship and the month of the tower my ex-partner had woken me up in the middle of the night to argue with me, and for the most part it was verbal abuse but this particular night he raised his hand to hit me and I found myself in a very vulnerable position. That night was the night I left and yes this was the month I had drawn the tower card for.  So it was depicting upheaval and change and a traumatic event, but if you look at the following month, the death card, the start of a new life and leaving the past behind, which is exactly what happened, I left and never went back.

 

So you see the tower often means that you are going to be forced into action and while it may be traumatic for you at the time, it is nearly always spirit forcing you to act and then moving you into a better situation. No card should be feared in the tarot deck because it is there for guidance, and if it wasn’t there you wouldn’t be aware of a difficult time coming up. It will happen anyway but you will be prepared for it and often it’s not as bad as you fear.

 

Lots of love Suzi x

 

 

 

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Published: 24th March 2017

 

 

 

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Free Will

 

Today’s blog is going to be about free will, and then I am going to follow up over the coming weeks with information about certain cards that people fear to come into a tarot reading. 

 

When I give a tarot reading I always try to stress to the client that they do have control over their future. So many people stumble along worrying about things that they feel are destined to happen that they often miss out on what is going on around them at the time. 

 

One of the biggest problems that people have is that they are searching for their soul mate or twin flame and you can either be so tied up with thinking you are meant to be with someone that you can be in a really negative relationship and feel that you have to stay. The other problem that can arise is when someone feels that they are still looking and they don’t enjoy the current relationship they are in because they are still looking for something else. Whatever situation you are in, you should be learning something from it, so if you are happy then don’t be looking around for something better or you are going to miss what’s in front of your eyes.

 

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The thing with free will is that not many people seem to accept they have it or can use it.  A reading is all about guidance to help you make a choice on which path you want to journey down next. When you are having a reading your future is not set in stone, if you don’t like what is coming in then look at other options. I will often choose cards for several different decisions and see what comes up, that way the client has a choice in front of them. The last thing I want you to take away with you is that you don’t have a choice. It’s your life and the path is yours, don’t let other people make those choices for you, remember you have free will.  I really hope this has been some use to you.

 

Love Suzi x

 

 

 

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Published: 17th March 2017

 

 

 

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Empathy

 

Today’s blog is about empathy and being empathic, every day I come across people ‘suffering’ with empathy.  When we are talking about it in a spiritual sense, it’s taking on other people’s feelings as your own, sometimes even their aches and pains. So many people suffer with this and don’t realise it and it can be hard to live with if you don’t realise what it is.  One of the ways to recognise it is if you get a sudden surge of feeling either good or bad and there seems to be no reason for it.  If you are sat on a bus for example and someone is sat behind you and they are suffering with a really low mood, you would pick up that mood for no reason.  Anger is also something that people pick up and you don’t understand why you are irritated by everyone around you, but it isn’t your anger it’s someone else.  On a good level you can pick up other people’s positive feelings too. 

 

There is something called grounding and protecting in the spiritual world and this is to protect you from other people’s negative energy.  Once practiced it takes only a moment to do but it can be really good to do in the morning and at night before you go to bed so that you are in a routine with it.  You need to just close your eyes and imagine a large tree, something that you like, there is no right or wrong here and you put your back to the tree of your choice and the branches will come around you as if the tree is hugging you.  Spend a minute feeling that connection to the tree and it will send its roots around your feet and into the ground, imagine them going right down to the Earth’s core. Spend as long as you want in this mini meditation but you are now grounded.

 

Protection is the next thing to do, one of the ways I was taught is to just see a lovely fluffy cloud in front of you, a friend of mine used to imagine it like a pink candy floss and it will come in and surround you and then any negative energy from other people will stick on the outside of it instead of coming in towards you.  If you are surrounded by people all day you may need to do that exercise several times a day, but its quick and easy to do.

 

I hope that has been of some use to you, and if you have any questions about it then feel free to book a reading and I will talk you through other methods you can try and help guide you down the right path. 

 

Love Suzi xxx

 

 

 

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Published: 9th March 2017

 

 

 

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Embracing signs from loved ones in spirit

 

Hello and welcome back to my blog, I’m going to start today with a personal story to explain the sort of signs that I get because signs from spirit can come in all sorts of different ways, often personal ones that would mean nothing to other people. 

 

When my friend was alive he was that sort of person who you would get an electric shock from if you touched him while he was pushing a shopping trolley.  It was a standing joke amongst his family and friends but obviously meant nothing to the people around him that didn’t know him.  For weeks every time I went into the boot of my car I would get a shock from it and I was with a friend one day (who didn’t know my friend who had passed) and I got the electric shock and I suddenly said ‘oh I bet it is my friend’.  I was met with a laugh and told that I was stupid to read into everything trying to grasp at something to indicate my friend was trying to make contact.  At the time I wasn’t working with spirit as closely as I do now, and I was embarrassed so never mentioned it again.  I asked my friend to give me a sign if he was close and then a few weeks later I went for a tarot reading and the woman said to me that she didn’t often get personal messages from spirit but she said that my friend was there and he said that I was right about the sign and that it was him!  What I have learnt over the years is that I don’t mention things like that to the wrong kind of people, the ones who are none believers and the ones who will make you feel silly for it.  I keep my signs to myself and smile knowing that spirit are constantly there letting us know they are ok.

 

Signs from spirit can come in any way, my father in law brings a Robin to my fence, my other family bring me blackbirds and I only just realised that one recently after a recent family funeral and I had been visited by blackbirds for years since my Gran had died.  At the family funeral a blackbird flew down and landed on a gravestone in front of me.

 

Dreams are often a good way for spirit to contact us.  Whatever the personal message is for you, don’t ever let anyone else make you feel stupid, smile to yourself and don’t tell anyone.  The more you acknowledge a message, the more spirit will come in to let you know they are there.  They are your family and of course they are around helping you. If you have any signs that you are not sure of, or dreams you need help with, feel welcome to come and discuss them with me in a reading.  I hope you enjoyed my blog today, love Suzi xxx

 

 

 

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Published: 27th February 2017

 

 

 

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It's ok to be nice!

 
When you are walking around from place to place, just pay attention to the people around you and share a smile once in a while. From my own experience, when I have been really down something like having the door opened for me, or a really friendly shop assistant has made me feel better.

 

I recently helped an old lady who was partially blind, had two sticks, not much hair and couldn’t stand up straight. I was at the bus station because my car was broken and you know when you think why has my car broken again? I know this lady was the reason why. I saw her and instantly knew she needed help and on a busy bus station lots of people turned away from her. She noticed me looking at her and came to me to ask for help and started crying. She was lost and of course I helped her and I ended up sitting having coffee in the Managers office with her and some lovely people, including a police officer, and we all helped her to get home. What I am trying to say is that the lady had been at the bust station for half an hour and it was only because I offered her a smile and a friendly face that she felt she could ask me for help.

 

What I feel is that most of us are really busy and stressed in our own lives, so we just don’t notice the people around us, the strangers that walk past us in the street. Next time you are out, take some time to notice the people around you, don’t have your personal music on, listen to the sounds on the street. If you live in a city you will probably have buskers around, stop and listen to some free entertainment for a few minutes, it will lighten up your day. If you make the effort to smile at someone or pay them a compliment it not only makes them feel good, it makes you feel good too. I will always tell someone if they have a nice outfit on, or tell a woman with a child how lovely her child is. Sometimes a nice comment like that can turn someone’s day around, so go on, spread a little happiness.

 

 

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Published: 16th February 2017

 
 
 

 

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