Finding a partner to love and be loved by is the most important issue in the lives of the majority of people. With countless lonely hearts out there, why is it that so many people can’t seem to couple-up? Self-defeating behavior is often the cause, so follow the tips below to maximize your opportunities. A reading from one of The Circle’s expert clairvoyants and mediums can give you more specific insight, putting you on the way to changing your life.
Every self-help book will tell you the same and there’s no way round it. If you aren’t keen on the person in the mirror, how can you expect anyone else to be? And if someone does fall for you, chances are you’ll think less of them, deep down, for wanting someone as useless as you. Or you may use them as a crutch to such an extent that you put the relationship at risk. So, create a Compliments Diary, list your achievements and look your reflection in the eye at least three times each day, saying ‘You’re amazing!’
...and not just in bed! Pursue what lights your fire and make sure your life is filled with absorbing, fascinating things to do. Enthusiastic, involved people are the sexiest, and you may meet a soul-mate who shares your interests.
Despite what you may have read in romantic novels, no knight in shining armour is going to come galloping up to your door. Give yourself opportunities to meet people, and remember you sometimes have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince! If crowds put you off, many people have met their other half on the Internet, so surf, scroll – and click!
You may think you know who, or what is right for you, but you could be very wrong. Don’t hold out for perfection, or insist on someone who ticks all the boxes. Love can come in some surprising packages.
The enigmatic look may work in films, but in real life it can put possible partners off. Remember that most people are every bit as unsure of themselves as you are, and they need the encouragement of a friendly face.
Attracting a partner is natural, so try not to worry about it. Someone who is exactly right for you may be just around the corner.