Time to make your relationship work, or time to say goodbye? Being in a relationship is a wonderful thing, if things are going well of course, but all partnerships in life need work, be it business or romantic. It's easy to become complacent with someone you've been with for a long time and further down the line we can feel that the sparkle from the first few months is dead and buried. It can be ignited again, we just have to know how.
However it’s not always the case of spicing up a relationship and sometimes it's better to say goodbye. Staying in a bad relationship drains us of energy, vitality and light. It is easy to feel scared at being on your own again, but ultimately it is the best decision if you and your partner are going round in circles and you know deep in your heart that the relationship is not right.
Everyone is seeking someone who will love and understand them. We all search for love at some point in our lives, but the problem for many is that in the fast pace of the modern world, it is difficult to dedicate enough time and energy to go looking for that special person. And of course when we make the time, we think it should happen immediately. But that is not how the universe works. It will happen when the time is right. And often once we have found a relationship, we realize that they are not as uncomplicated as we think.
Even soul mate relationships can be hard if conditions are not right. Some soulmates have to part for a while and come back together when the timing is right. When you have been with the same person for some time, it is easy to fall into a routine that makes it feel as if all the surprises and “Eastern promise” have gone out of the relationship, which can cause problems. When you feel like this, it is important to sit down and talk. Think back to how it used to be at the beginning and what is was that made you fall in love with each other.
Talking is the most important thing in a relationship. Be honest and truthful. You need to be honest to yourself if you feel that your relationship cannot be saved. So many couples stay together because they feel guilty and insecure, but what they are doing is stopping themselves and their partner finding a soul mate and the chance to be truly happy.
It seems strange to want to "let go of love" because love is something that everyone wants. However, when you split up with someone for who you cared deeply, the pain can seem unbearable. It can feel like a raw wound that just won’t heal — no matter how much time passes. In order to stop the pain, you have to go through a grieving period, the same as if someone passes away. It takes time but you will come out the other side and then you are ready to move forward.
If you are in a relationship where you are abused, you have to get out and get out now! It may seem difficult and frightening at first, but no being on this earth deserves to be ill-treated. There is a better life for you than this. An abusive relationship can and will leave you feeling worthless, insecure and powerless because that is what the other person wants you to believe. You, and you alone must take your power back and take charge of your life again. Losing our self-confidence also means we become very needy and that means it's difficult to let go. We deserve to be loved for who we are and not what someone wants us to be. When we are attached to a person or emotions, we are imprisoned as if we have a ball and chain around our feet.
If you saw a bird trapped in a bramble bush, you would of course release it so that it could fly again free. If you saw that the same bird in the bush was trapped not by thorns, but by its fear of flying, you’d be surprised but you would certainly free it and try to persuade it to fly. We are amazing beings trapped in the chains of repeating patterns, with rigid mind sets and emotional beliefs. It’s time now to free yourself from mental and emotional chains. Unlike the bird, we do not have to wait for someone to free us. The key is within us.
Call on the angel Anael, also known as Haniel, the Angel of love, to help you. Anael is the Angel of Venus and of love in all forms. His name means "the grace of God", because of his link with beauty, love and all things harmonious. If your love life needs work, you want to attract a partner or improve a current relationship, work with Anael. All you have to do is ask him for help and he will come to you.