Relationships develop from three main things; the first is respect, the second trust and then thirdly love comes in to it. If the respect or trust has been lost from a relationship then it can be hard for that relationship to be maintained even if the love remains.
Remaining in a relationship just for the sake of it means that nobody in the relationship is really happy; there will not be fulfilment for anyone on any level. This can then lead to a lack of communication, bitterness, resentment, lies, arguments and sometimes in extreme circumstances unfaithfulness or worse violence. These are all signs that the relationship is breaking down. It is at this point that seeking help will be very beneficial.
Seeking help in whatever form be it from a professional or from friends or family means that you are taking control and certainly doesn't show weakness. It shows that you have the courage to confront the issue and deal with be it to repair and work on the relationship or move away.
Talking with your partner in an open and honest way can really help both of you resolve the issue. It is helpful if you can always talk from the “I” that is talk about how you feel rather than how “they” make you feel. This can be very difficult for some partners to do and that can be where external help is really useful. If the partner is really unwilling to confront things then it may be the case that the decision is down to you.
Being in a negative relationship can bring down your confidence and your self-esteem, which is why a lot of people remain in a destructive cycle within their relationship. People don't feel that they deserve better but we all deserve to be in a loving, supportive, relationship but sometimes that has to start with loving ourselves.
Relationship decisions are scary but the talented love psychics can help show you a way forward and a Tarot reading can show you what is coming up for you in the future in the new chapter that you're starting, be that rebuilding the respect and trust in the relationship or starting afresh. You deserve happiness as does everyone but only you can make it happen by taking that first step forward.
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