We all go about our daily business and part of our routines is the loving contact you have with a close friend. If it’s at work, then the ‘in jokes’ help the day to pass easily and make the job easier. If it’s in life, then our day is eased with the love and comfort that flows so effortlessly. Loving friendship is a blessing.
Life rolls on and sometimes difficult decisions are made, or dreams are realised and we face the prospect of our lovely friend moving many miles away. We are at once excited, supportive and encouraging for them, whilst our hearts are torn, as we face the inevitable loss of not seeing them.
Any change as dramatic as this needs time to heal and time to lovingly adapt to the change in the friendship. It is grief and emotions will rise up for both friends. The ease of communication and love between you will keep the communication channels open. You can talk and share, just as you have done before. Moving is stressful at any time, never mind a long distance one. Practical help will be invaluable and in this loving bonds will be strengthened. Just offering a cup of tea, and some respite from the moving madness for your dear friend, will sometimes be all that is needed.
Then all the moving has been done and they are gone.
Something very special remains. Your love for each other. The shared history, understanding, jokes and care.
If you feel overwhelmed by your feelings of loss and need help to see a way forward, then it is understandable that your friend is too busy right now to help you. Calling for a psychic reading is very useful at this time. A different view on the situation is balm for the emotions that are being felt. Different ideas and perspectives on a way forward are a gift.
There are many blessings to be found in the internet and ‘Skype’ is one of them. To be able to ‘call’ each other and see your lovely friend many miles away means everything. You can natter, and if you have a laptop with web cam, they can walk you around their new home. You can ‘wave’ at each other. Emails and good old fashioned letters mean such a lot. Sometimes, just a line…..’I saw this and thought of you’. Your friendship will change and adapt.
The love that you have always had stays and you will both find creative ways of showing care and love. In your hearts, those ‘cuppa’ moments are still there, and the very best thing is, in time, you will get to put your arms around each other again and laugh with delight. True friendship and love last a lifetime.